Travel Ball Reality Check: A Father’s Advice

Jerrod Gonzales walks with Ja’Lia Gonzales between innings during a practice session on their home field in Antioch, Calif.
Jerrod Gonzales walks with Ja’Lia Gonzales between innings during a practice session on their home field in Antioch, Calif.

Lessons Learned From Life Inside Travel Ball

Written by: Jerrod Gonzales
Parent of: Ja’Lia Gonzales, Class of 2032, All American Sports Academy- Sansaver 12U

Navigating the world of youth softball begins long before the first pitch—and few parents speak to that reality more honestly than Jerrod Gonzales of Antioch, California.

Jerrod is the proud father of Ja’Lia Gonzales, a standout 12U athlete for All American Sports Academy – Sansaver and a member of Extra Inning Softball’s 12U West Rising Star Watch List. In this Parent Hub article, Jerrod tackles a question that every softball family eventually faces: Are we pushing our kids too hard—or not enough?

Drawing from firsthand experience in the ultra-competitive world of travel ball, his reflections offer a candid window into what it really takes behind the scenes—and why striking the right balance between pressure and support may be the biggest challenge of all.

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